Late June 2008
A New Journey cannot begin until the previous journey ends. My journey
ended on January 3rd, 2008. My Love and companion of more than fifty-years
left us for a better place.
Previously: In July 2006 the surgeon told us this open-heart procedure
will take about four hours, "you will be walking three hours after
this surgery." A stoke during surgery changed this. She never walked
again, never came home again and passed away eighteen months later.
For months afterward my life seemed to be lived in a fog. I handled
the immediate day-to-day things and no more. I did what was necessary. My
close-knit family helped me throughout this period. This and the many emails,
cards and calls from our friends have been a comfort.
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On the Road Again: Driving up I-17 this
Wednesday the coach seems strange with no one in the navigator's seat. It
has been three years since embarking on a long trip like this one. In previous
summers we would leave in early May and return at the end of September.
Our travels often included California, Utah, Nevada, Oregon, Washington,
and B.C., Idaho, Montana, Wyoming, New Mexico and back to the Valley of
the Sun.
I recall some of our trips to
Baja, Mexico in past years. These evoke a number of good memories.
It is late in the summer for me to be leaving for the season. From
this weekend's campout I will head for Lake Mary near Flagstaff, at least
until the end of July, Then... I don't know. Perhaps on to Colorado, maybe
somewhere on the Delores River or the beautiful lake above the town of Delores.
Then move on to a favorite area near Jackson Hole, Wyoming. With the lateness
of the season, I may not get that far.
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This Friday
morning in late June I stand on the edge of the Mogollon Rim under the tall
pine trees, cup of coffee in hand, gazing out over the wide valley below.
A couple of thousand feet below and nearly twenty-miles away is a small
white spot in the forest; this is the town of Pine, Arizona. The buildings
are like large dots among the trees. Sort of like standing 30 feet away
from an HO gauge railway toy town.
Beyond this valley are tall ridges and peaks marching away to the
horizon, probably fifty-miles away. The air is clear and crisp and in the
low sixties, a lot different then the one hundred-fifteen degree temperatures
I left in Phoenix.
On Wednesday, I pulled into this spot on the Mogollon Rim. Without
precise directions I would never have found it. It is off of Arizona Route
87, about 25 or so miles North of Payson and a dozen or so miles south of
Happy Jack. Then over five miles in "slow" gear over forest roads
that no longer even have a number or show on the map.
This beautiful
clearing gives us a great view from the edge of the Rim. Flat ground is
at a premium. When I arrived on Wednesday there were three other motor homes
and one travel trailer. My jacks lifted the front wheels off the ground
to level the coach. Only one or two more units showed up on Thursday.
More rigs began to arrive today, Friday, for the weekend. Motor homes,
travel trailers, tent trailers and tents. All bringing some of the friendliest
people to be found anywhere. Many applauded when the j-john was delivered.
I am looking forward to the weekend.
By Saturday we have nearly 30 people at this campout. The youngest
is a 3-year-old boy. The oldest, I won't guess... Mostly couples, some singles
who mostly camp in tents or in the back of their SUVs or pickups.
The weather has cooperated with no rain. We have had a good time with
a potluck on Saturday evening. The stars are so bright!
Sunday at mid-morning I am talking to four or six people, standing
near the middle of our camp on the Mogollon Rim. A number of people have
already pulled out, heading home. A woman I will call Jodie came through,
making the rounds saying goodbye to everyone. She motioned me to accompany
her to her camp.
Her car was parked at the very edge of the clearing, a few feet into
the trees. I noticed her tent was already down and packed away. On the other
side of the car was her little reading place where she could take the sun
and nap. She picked up the pillow and tossed it into the car. I helped her
fold the blanket. We shook out the ground tarp, folded it and she put it
away.
How to describe her? She is about 5'6" and about 135 lbs., brown
hair, and a pleasant face with wide set intelligent eyes. She is lightly
tanned with no strap marks. Her age? Late-forties? Perhaps older, maybe
younger? What man has the audacity to determine a woman's age? Not I. She
told me she has worked at a university for some years as a career counselor.
She said she should have been on the road an hour ago heading back
to the Valley. We talked for a few minutes more... She said she has a lot
on her plate just now and is glad of our conversations. She feels much better
about herself then she has in a long time. She was impressed with my "New
Journey" and has again started her journal. I told her I too have gained
from our time together.
She moved a step backward to her car, reached in and still facing
me picked up her panties and pulled them on in one smooth motion. She pulled
on her tan shorts in the same way. Then her top. This is the first time
I have seen her in clothes. How does she look? Perhaps a little more mature,
a little more of a commanding presence, not as vulnerable? No, not really.
You might imagine this, but she is the same intelligent woman, with or without
clothes.
Another hug from her, then she slid into her driver's seat. I walked
to the rear of the car and guided her past some obstacles as she backed
to the forest road. Once on the road, she stopped. As the car started moving
forward she waved to me.
She drove slowly down the track on her five-mile trip to the highway
and home.
Will we ever meet again? Maybe, perhaps at another campsite some time
in the future?
Friends invited me to camp with this club. Many people think nudity
is usually associated with sex. This is not the case. Most naturist clubs
are family oriented. Behavior is the same as anywhere else; it is just that
clothing is optional.
Visitors who chose not to shed their clothes are treated like everyone
else, with no comments or special notice directed to them. Before the first
day is over many have discarded most of their clothing. The next morning
many are nude.
Children raised in this type of environment seem to be much better
adjusted, with no need to try and imagine what is or isn't under the clothing
worn by the other sex.
So if you are on a back road in the National Forest and encounter
a sign, "Nudity may be encountered ahead" you know what to expect.
Such a sign keeps the Forest Service happy.
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